he Painbody of Relationships is a lack of harmony between you and your other half in the level of the 3 main energy centers (chakras). A partner or a lover should be able to feel and perceive (accept) the energy of the other sex in all levels (chakras) and by doing that this person will be connected to the Divine Spirit of the Wholeness of life being able to develop a harmonious external character as well. But if there is no exchange of energy between the partners or the 2 sexes in general, at least on the 3 main levels (sexual, emotional and mental), it will be impossible to sustain this unity, inner harmony and connection. To clear the painbody of relationships work is needed on the 3 energy centers (chakras)
1. Swadhisthan - center that expresses and receives the energy of passion (sensuality, desire and passionate way of living in all aspects of life)
2. Anahata - Soul love & ability of heart connection
3. Ajna - depth and level of understanding
When these chakras start to work in harmony the painbody of relationships is cleaned and a person starts to see in the partner what he or she needs to see. Then this person can feel no offense or any other negative feelings. If a person keeps though all these feelings and energies blocked inside of him, he will continue to feel negative feelings and his creativity, inspiration and love will come to a halt. This person time and again thinks about himself: "why am i unhappy in love? why am i still not finding a partner? Why am i still not married?" A person who has the gift or the knowledge and can correct his energy by himself or who will ask for help from a teacher or a healer will be able to solve these problems and make these centers active and harmonious.